I just got back from the Dominican Republic, and had a great “I’m not in Kansas anymore” time. Got to do some things and eat some things that are unique to me. Had to put up with the things that I would have preferred avoiding (met some viscious and hungry bugs that ate up my legs, their pipes can’t handle tissue paper so you put it in a trash can) and got to experience some great things as well. Got to go horseback riding. Of course my horse decided to sit down in the middle of the river as we were crossing with me on him. But, the most memorable are always the people.

I had been to this particular boarding school one other time. About three years ago, I met Ben Weber. He was a tall, athletic young man who was trying to figure out who he was and what he wanted to stand for.

On my last visit, I got to spend time with him and talk on several occasions. I don’t remember the specifics of those conversations, but I do remember praying with him and trying to encourage him. Ben was on a journey. He was trying to overcome his past and find a relationship with God that was close but seemed so far away. I know that I was not the only one who was speaking hope to him, but I am grateful that I got to share with him on some level.

Last week I found out that Ben died in a car accident on February 12th.

Ben graduated from the program in December and moved home to start a life. His faith was front and center even though he was still not perfect. He loved God and was trying to discover how his faith should affect his life.

Well, now, based on his decision to trust Jesus for the forgiveness of his sins, he is with Jesus, in Heaven. And, I am so glad I got to meet him.

His life/journey has been challenging me on several levels since I learned of his death. It reminds me to be kind, encouraging, and to pray for those that God brings across my path as I have no idea what God might use to break through someone’s spiritual walls.

Ben reminds me to let go of the past (whether good or bad) and pursue God in the moment. God is bigger than my past and his plans greater than what I have experienced.

And, his life reminds me to openly love and care for those that mean so much to me. In the DR i met Ben’s brother and girlfriend that are coping differently with the loss. Ben meant so much to them and it gives them some sense of peace to know how much he did care.

You never know what is going to happen in the future…so, don’t miss opportunities to love humbly, listen intently, and share as the opportunities arise.